On the road
Driving should be illegal. I think that often while on the road. Because we all share it together right? It’s a microcosm for our species. We share this one planet together—our individual actions affect us all.
Driving should be illegal. I think that often while on the road. Because we all share it together right? It’s a microcosm for our species. We share this one planet together—our individual actions affect us all.
Weddings are about love. I cry every time I’m invited to attend one; how honored am I to participate in a ceremony of commitment?
It’s not for sure, this commitment. There’s some inherent questioning there. Forever? And that’s the point. It’s not for certain. It’s a commitment.
We are a society built up of this. Can we form more commitments?
We do absolutely all we can to provide a better life for our children. So that they may have it better than we had it, so they have more opportunity for love and prosperity. And yet, when children grow up in a privileged setting, with nothing left to want, they can sometimes grow to have no drive or purpose. How do we combat this juxtaposition?
Time fluctuates during transitions. The end of quarters, a move or breakup… it can fly by at the speed of light or pass laboriously in trickles. I often wonder about the fluidity of time, and how personal experience seems to influence it, instead of the other way around. Perhaps we are more powerful than we imagine.
Rhetoric is largely meaningless. Elected officials need to be evaluated based on their voting records. Transparency and accessibility to candidate voting records, not collection of soundbites, helps citizens. How often do we refer to the voting record in our assessment of society’s most powerful people?
Biologically we aim to assimilate. In marketing, we aim to be different.
As consumers we’re attracted to the bright and shiny, so ads are catchy and evoke emotion.
And in today’s world, it becomes increasingly difficult to discern when we’re being sold to. I believe it should be wrapped into every level of education.
Our ability to think critically will be the last bastion in an ever changing world.
Artificial Intelligence improvement already outpaces our ability to understand the resulting impacts.
Acceleration of change is no longer measured across generations, but weeks.
What is to become of us?
“Well that was a day.”
Sometimes on holidays it really does mean that much more.
Which is why we spend them with those we love.
We got rained on multiple times at Pinnacles National Park today. Transfixed by the shimmer on the spires, I couldn’t help but be amazed by the rain. I was like Chani in Dune, seeing for the first time a blue planet of which water falls from the sky. Earth truly is a big beautiful amazing world.
Back when Michael Shellenberger ran for California governor, I remember him saying he wanted to build a “Statue of Responsibility” in the San Francisco Bay, to correspond with the Statue of Liberty in New York Harbor. I still think about it often, as well as “if the whole world acted the way I’m acting now, what would the world be like?” We are responsible for our own destiny. What fate will we choose?
Today marks 2 years since my Granny died. As others who have lost loved ones can attest, the time has passed nonlinearly. I still remember the first time, many months later in 2022, when I realized, "I haven't thought about my Granny yet today."
She made an indelible impact not only on my life, but on those of many others. And 2 years later, my most poignant recollection is her positivity. Doris Martinez viewed people as good, the world as a nice place. It wasn't naviety; it was her manifestion of how to behave in the world.
Through her memory I try to always remember the bigger picture. To see the world as a wondrous place ripe for adventure. To emanate love from my core. And to be kind to others. Yes Granny, you've told me.
How often do you spend an hour or more in uninterrupted, deep concentration? While listening to Cal Newport detail his work habits, it occurred to me that I rarely spend much time completely focused on one thing. Which means my brain hasn't wired itself to optimally sustain such mental states. I suspect this is fairly common in the world today, with how much we refer to our smartphones and especially social media. What impact does this have? Are Americans distinct in this regard, or is this prevalent all over the world?
A foreboding feeling arises when we consider such questions. Our technology enables astonishing things and lives of convenience. Does it also dampen our global consciousness? Can we manipulate incentives to actually unite humanity and inspire change? Time will tell. Maybe it simply starts with concentration and reflection—who do we want to be as individuals, and as a species.
“Sociology is the study of human society… human social behavior, patterns of social relationships, social interaction, and aspects of culture…” so says Wikipedia. It helps us understand social change.
This field of study is often met with derision. But as the exponential acceleration of technological progression continues to dramatically alter our world, it’s clear Sociology is not only necessary but paramount. How our phones affect us shouldn’t just be studied on a neurobiological level, but on the grand stage of society.
Humans have always lived in groups. We are the orcas of the land, and our tools extend the size and reach of our pods. How we organize socially has determined our history and defines our fate. Understanding our sociology can help identify incentives, and ultimately inspire change.
I thought, “what if Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups went out of production, and there would only be a finite amount left?”
It made me unreasonably uneasy. I would buy and hoard them, ration them for as long as I could.
But nothing lasts forever, not even us, our consciousness, our lives, our species.. where do we go from here?
I offer this: we live, as wildly and freely as possible. Together, in this big beautiful amazing world.
Sociology is worthless. Waste of a degree and waste of time, I was told.
Yet this is what I do, what has unlocked my unique perspective, whether traveling or in daily life. Our lives will be defined by how we organize.
Despite all the chatter, no one knows the outcome of our dance with AI. It's ironic that Dune Part 2 premiered this month, when its source novel provides:
“Once men turned their thinking over to machines in the hope that this would set them free. But that only permitted other men with machines to enslave them.”
And:
"Thou shalt not make a machine in the likeness of human mind."
I'm not against development of more capable AI. But we seem too eager to seize value from its capabilities without considering consequences. Everything has consequences in this universe; it's basic physics.
Do we understand the potential consequences of General Artificial Intelligence? Are such repercussions primarily due to the technology itself, or the culture and societal structure within which it grows?
Technology rarely leads to pure salvation or destruction, but the hype feels real that AI could be either. Can we bend it to further raise global consciousness? It's unclear where to go from here, but worth our deliberation.
Perspective is everything. It changes how two different people can feel about the same result. There used to be a saying that happiness = expectations – outcome. I've found that to be very true in my life experience.
It's how you get wildly different takes about the same sports game, or election results, or a new movie. We may be more similar than we are different, but there are still more than eight billion of us, and we're bound to have some variance in opinion.
Should we thus enter any engagement with minimal expectations? I'm not sure this is the correct answer either, as expectations derive from anticipation, from thinking about a given event before it happens, like how athletes visualize scoring before it happens. Preparation, most of the time in life, is worthwhile. Considering the possible range of expectations yields better results. What is the absolute worst-case scenario, and what is the one you dream for? Most likely the result will be somewhere in the middle.
Which is where gratitude comes into play. Practicing gratitude insulates us from disappointment, from resentment festering from misaligned expectations. We can always be grateful when the worst-case possibility doesn't occur. We can always be grateful for the successes and prosperity we do enjoy, no matter how meager they may seem. We can be grateful for the very breath we take right now...
It all, gratitude, and the consideration of possible outcomes, comes from perspective. It's a worthy element to strive for every day.
Respect Responsibility Resolve. Sing Laugh Dance Smile every day. Love, health and time. Over the years I’ve considered creeds and philosophies to embrace in life.
I think it’s natural to experience some variation in approach as we emerge from adolescence and navigate through early adulthood. But my eventual goal has been to develop something to withstand the ebbs and flows of any given decade.
Yet there’s no deadline nor pressure, and I often need to remind myself that. We can simply be the best we can be, and that will be enough in the world. Our best will bring internal satisfaction, and external good for the world.
Voting isn't fun. To vote responsibly you need to understand the issues, be familiar with the candidates, and have an awareness of current events. Voting on propositions requires the ability to decipher sometimes complex language in the bill itself, as well as an understanding of a bill's implications. Where does the money come from? How well is it regulated/apportioned? Are there hidden costs, either financial or otherwise? A 'yes' or 'no' is not always simple.
And then there's voting for a person. I find it incredibly difficult to choose candidates; there's more to it than simply reading and understanding a proposed ballot initiative. These are living, breathing people. Candidates are inherently more complex and variable. Are they qualified? What does it mean to be qualified for a given office? Will they do what they say they're going to do? Are they a person of character? You mostly don't get to meet your representatives in person... but maybe we should make that a higher priority. Voting for a person, at some point, is putting faith into a stranger that they'll serve your best interests.
So why vote, when both propositions and people can be dubious? Because it's the mechanism by which we govern ourselves in a fair, free society. It's the most important thing we can do as citizens of our community, our state, our country, and our planet. Voting is hard, and it isn't fun. That's not why we do it. We vote because it's our responsibility as members of this species. To vote is to seize one's agency for change. By voting, we can change the world.
River view in Sedona
I've been thinking about another similarity shared among all humans: love. What culture doesn't celebrate love? Across the entire planet, across the centuries of our species' civilizations, we have always loved. The most prevalent stories we tell revolve around the love between two people. Mythology and legend often centrally feature romance. We go beyond our normal limits for love. We do irrational things for those whom we love. Biological organisms act in their self interest in order to reproduce and pass on their genetic information, yet human beings often act against their self interest because of love. We may completely disagree with another, or not understand one's way of life at all, but do we all love? It defines us, across ethnicity and culture, across geography and space, across generations and time. It defines us as a species. To be human is to love. And when we recognize this shared purpose, we are capable of uniting humanity. As Bob Marley indicated, we are one. One species, together, united by love. One love.